… on knowing better and “no-ing” better

  To tell the truth, I should have known better. I mean, doing a post about parenting a pre-teen through the perilous waters of social media is just asking for trouble, right?  I knew opening the conversation would open the door for me to be judged for my choices and place my daughter’s newsfeed under…

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…acknowledging the judge

It’s a simple photo.  A single microphone on a stage brought to life by the spotlight.  There are no humans in the shot but the image, taken at a music festival this past weekend, brought me to tears.  It is quite dramatic… and I am not a musician, but I felt moved by the power…

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…on hashing out the “if’s” and “when’s”

A couple of months ago I wrote a blog post stating that I was going to take a little break from writing — needing to step back to see exactly what it was that I needed to step up to do.  I had started this blog after taking an impromptu trip to LA to attend…

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…on you, and me, too

  “Men don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses.”   I don’t know who said that the first time and why it stuck but if that was the case, every woman I know would wear glasses, ALL THE TIME, to simply have a say-so about their bodies. Because a say-so doesn’t just mean “no”,…

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…on either, or, and… and.

The power of some hand-written words on paper.  They set a goal.  They frame a wish.  They declare a dream in a way that carries power only if it empowers the dreamer. “One day I want to cure cancer and to stop animal and human abuse.” Wow.  That’s quite a line up for a 4th…

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